How to choose a Bridal Wear for Plus Size Women
Marriage is one of the biggest event in life, so you really want to make sure you are at your best top to bottom.
One of the important ingredient, which enhances to the brides beauty is their bridal wear.
So how to choose the bridal wear, which matches your body shape and size?? This is a big challenge for most of the plus size women.
Step One
It’s normal for the plus size women to go through this challenge of choosing the bridal wear to find the flattering figure to look their best.
Main thing is to get the clothes that fit’s you and to be comfortable with it.
Identify your body shape. Is it hour glass, round shape, Pear shape, Inverted triangle etc etc… It’s not possible to talk about all the body shapes and it’s clothing fit here, so I am just scoping it to pear shaped body. Here are some basic guide lines:
Many plus size women have this misconception when they want to choose their dresses. They would want to look for clothing based on their size and end up with returns, exchanges because of the mismatch. Please ‘Go by your measurements and not by the Size” because you may have to go up or down in size depending on the dress, and also….if the dress needs any alteration– it’s easier to get a bigger size and go down than trying to work around a too small dress. Adding fabric can just make a dress look tacky, so go up in size. But there are few like Lane Bryant, Davids bridal who run pretty true to the size.
Step Two
Think on which style & color of the dress you want and what’s your budget. You can check the online stores www.adhis-plussizefashionwear.com to have an idea. If you can think of some style, you can go to www.theknot.com and do a search. You will be surprised that you will come across lot of designers that you didn’t even know. Alternatively, you can just choose the color and let the attendants pick the dress that flatters them.
Step Three
It’s always better to try the gowns on? Plus, it’s good for the soul to see yourself as a bride with some focus on what you like. Besides make it a fun to shop for such a great occasion and tailoring is generally a must for formal gowns most of the times.
Step Four
There are often times that you can set up an appointment to try on gowns and bridal shops may pull some in advance for you if you give them your measurements and a few preferences on your favorite assets to show. A lot of bridal shops can do this if you call to inquire about sizes. Oh yeah, and totally ignore going by the size as said earlier. For one thing I’ve seen many formal gowns (as a bridemaid) that only come in standard sizing. That means the size may be 4 or 5 sizes higher than the number you are used to seeing.
Step Five
Whether your style is dramatic, chic, romantic, natural or timeless…it can help you find a more definite direction as far as style goes. One of my friend was a Timeless bride…..she wore a vintage dress in a princess style with pearls for her day…
Step Six
As far as wedding gowns go for pear shapes, it’s actually lots easier than you think. Because most wedding gowns bell out that is in your favor. The styles to stay away from are mermaid, column and sheath styles which will do nothing but accentuate the fact that you are bottom heavy since they are close cut all over - although with some major custom tailoring from a clever seamstress, those styles can sometimes work, but are much trickier.
Step Seven
You could go for princess seams, flounces and trains, empire cuts. If you are confident of your upper body a simple strapless number will do. You also will want an open shaped neck-line with nothing buttoned up high under your chin. This could be square cut, strapless, scoop, vee, sweetheart - doesn’t have to show a lot of cleavage if you don’t want, you just don’t want to close off the shape giving your sort of triangle look.
Step Eight
By opening the neckline shape you’ll create more of an hourglass shape to your figure visually. Pears can very successfully wear puff sleeves, and wider bell sleeves with a close fitting bodice too, if those are styles that tickle your fancy. Stay away from anything shapeless.
Step Nine
Be careful with small mom-and-pop bridal shops. There was a situation where they closed suddenly-leaving no contact info or anything. They left many brides, and many high school girls who had purchased their prom dresses there, in the lurch.
Step Ten
To me, I got white color for my wedding dress; it was superbly gorgeous and high quality, got it really cheap. It was pretty white one with purple and pink beaded bits to break up the white background.
On the same note, red one with black velvet would look great but do please check your liking. Don’t hide behind dark colors; pinstripes can turnout to be very flattering.
Step Eleven
Have long gloves for the lower part of your arms. I have heard of good things about the red wedding dresses of Chinese made. A lovely qipao or something like that would be a nice way to cover the arms. Hope you don’t have any issues with your heels, since there are so many plus sized concerns with heels. Anyway do check on your “stability factor” with heels on.
Step Twelve
As far as accessories go, I usually see very less in weddings but some of them do like to wear. I have also gone from wearing a dressier jewelry to much more cool laid back one. Usually I find women like the organic look and the designs mainly made of gemstone components. To what I know, the one of the issue in jewelry for plus size women is the size. Bracelets and necklaces always seem to stop at size7”. The biggest accessory that takes the center stage is the ring. Rings always have to be specially ordered, and same goes with watches. Be very cautious on choice of your jewelry, some of them really match well to the body and on the other side, a wrong choice will turn a plus size women into a hippie.
Step Thirteen
It’s definitely not possible to spill out everything in this little space here but just shared the minimum basic stuffs.
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As I said earlier, these are just some of my suggestions, do check on your liking. It doesn’t really matter what’s your size or your age, once you understand what looks good on you with a comfortable fit. Remember that being able to lace up for a perfect fit alleviates a lot of dress-fit stress. You will start to feel more confident and sure to raise your self-esteem.
I Love my curves
Curvywoman
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The traditional sample size for designers to send bridal boutiques is a size 10, which in bridal actual translates to a size 6 or 8. Not the most encouraging sight for a plus size woman.